So, I made some pretty serious claims about abandoning this blog for tumblr. But when I realized no one could comment on there and that no one really blogged on tumblr. [FOR REAL blogged]. I decided, we will keep blogging on here, especially with our up and coming adventure in England.
I'll write more about that later.
Really I just wanted to write something about how hard marriage is.
Well, it isn't. People are always saying marriage is SO hard and bla bla bla. And I guess to a degree, it takes work, but it's not hard, *IF* you marry someone you not only love, but LIKE. Even when they are being annoying, you like them.
I don't have to be married to me, so I can only speak for myself in saying, being married to Taylor Giddens is a whole lotta fun, and comes pretty naturally to me. But I'm only 3 months in. I'll check back with you in 3 more months :)
THATS ALL FOR NOW. Good night.
4 comments:
I totally agree with you! Everyone told me how hard marriage would be and that the first year would be the most difficult, but it wasn't at all. Guess that's how you know you married the right one! :-)
Ditto Kynslie....although I'm only in 7 months, I havent found it difficult at all..more like tons of fun with your BFF/hubbs! And yeah, you married a pretty awesome guy. It's kind hard to NOT like anyone in the Giddens clan!
So I realize that I don't know you. Or really even know Taylor (although I did meet him once. And he and I ARE FB friends. And we have a lot of friends in common). But we share the same last name (I'm sure somewhere down the line there's a connection) and I just had to tell you - I think you are really funny. And pretty witty too. Just thought you should know!
PS-Have I totally freaked you out by this comment???
Hey, I don't know you, but I am friends with Taylor from Taiwan. First, I'd like to say congratulations. You two looks like a great match. I feel that many people have incorrect interpretation as to what "hard" means in marriage. Many people thought that you would have disagreements, arguments or even a lot of fights and that's hard. I would say that's not hard, because people disagree and that's human nature. What is hard is that you don't fight any more because you don't feel the love. Or for some people, you don't have someone to have and hold. That IS hard. For us, we never had any serious fight until two years into our marriage, but I'd also say that it's just something to be expected, and that's not hard. So, don't worry. You will have your share of fight eventually, but don't get discouraged. You will grow closer to each other after those. All the best.
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